More and more people are moving abroad and becoming expats. More families are moving and taking advantage of places like the Ascot School (https://ascot.ac.th/) as a way to provide a new culture for their children. While there are lots of reasons for becoming an expat, I only have experience on going to London – understandably, as I live here!- so that’s what I’ll be focusing on today. Thereâ€™s tons of advice for American Expats in London available on the Internet from sites like Destinationscanner.com, so Iâ€™m jumping straight to the quirky stuff, Sunny friends. You’re about to hear the scoop like you’ve never heard it before…
ADVICE #1- Get Ready to See Ta-Taâ€™s and Who-haâ€™s
Have any of you been to a gym yet? Holy nakedness, Batman! If you havenâ€™t been to a fitness center in London, brace yourselves for the X-rated Locker Room SHOW! I damn near bump in to the walls and trip over the benches every time I walk in to my local LA Fitness Ladies’ Locker Room because my eyes are nearly cinched close. The amount of bare naked ladies parading around the room is a bit jolting to this American girl, and I grew up in Daytona Beach where we practically wore our bathing suits to school! Check out this photo I snapped in the locker roomâ€¦
Yeah, right! Aside from all the pub crawls and champagne I write about, I’m keeping Sunny in London fairly G-rated. No nudey shots here!
But, big props to the body confidence European ladies have. However, I donâ€™t know if Iâ€™ll ever get used to the amount of flesh skipping around that room.
ADVICE #2- The MAILMAN is not breaking in to your flat.
I have a mild heart attack every time my mail is delivered when Iâ€™m at home. In Florida, if someone comes up to your door step and starts messing about, you go in to lockdown mode and call 911. Therefore, when I hear the Royal Post Person shoving mail through that slot in my door, I always think Iâ€™m about to experience a home invasion.
ADVICE #3- Look both ways before you cross the street. TWICE.
It’s going to take a LONG, LONG time to figure out the roads. Iâ€™ve lived in London a few times, but I still canâ€™t figure out where in tarnation cars are coming from. So, yeah, don’t even think about getting a driverâ€™s license. It’ll be a year before you can cross a street and not be in sheer terror, much less operate a manual vehicle from the â€œother side.â€ Until then, stick with the good ol’ zebra crossings. Here’s me crossing Abbey Road, circa 199….
ADVICE #4- Order a drink and food right, or do the barmaid’s job.
â€œCan I get a Pinot Noir?â€ Every time I say that, Mr. Sunny cringes. Notice that when Londoners are ordering, they say, â€œMay I have a London Pride, please?â€ Thereâ€™s no â€œgetâ€, and the request ends with “please”. As easy as it sounds, itâ€™s an unnerving habit that us American foreigners need to break. When we say â€œgetâ€, Londoners think â€œSure you can. Get up and go GET it yourself, Yankee.â€ Sheesh.
ADVICE #5- The Rear of the Year sits at the bottom of the list.
Most of us Americans discovered Pippa the day of the Royal Marriage. If youâ€™re a celeb siting stalker like me, from that day forward you forgot Kim Kardashian and fixated on a new arse crush to motivate your workouts.
Heck, I even rushed out and bought her book, â€œCelebrate.â€
The truth is, British people donâ€™t favour her too much. So, my advice is to keep your American infatuation with her to yourself. Better yet, ring me up, and we can spend 8-10 hours at a place she frequents in the odd chance sheâ€™ll show up and want to friend us.
ADVICE FOR AMERICAN EXPATS IN LONDON FINAL THOUGHTS:
Dickens wrote in Tale of Two Cities, “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times…”
Living in London can be both super fun and super challenging for expats. We miss the culture from our other city, but we love British culture too.
Thatâ€™s my two pence worth of quirky advice for American Expats in London. I hope it helps you have the best of times. Please put your advice in the comment section below, Sunny friends. Iâ€™d love it if you shared this post somewhere.